Why does my mom not seem to care about my birthday?





Why does my mom not seem to care about my birthday?Usually in my birthday months, she's really nice to me, and she gets me little surprises leading up to it.But I'm turning 15 on sat. the 24th and she hasn't done anything. I'm not having a party this year, because I just don't have the time. Today we had a get together with a few people and on kids was turning 12 today. So yesterday, my mom was all like "do you think we should buy him a cake?" Then today I was like "Mom, when are we buying my cake?" and she was like "Oh...you need a cake? I thought we're going to a restaurant and they'll give you a cake there!"But that's not how we usually do it. Usually we go out to dinner the day before my b'day, get a little cake there, and then have a celebration in the home with a cake that we buy and then I open presents. But today, all my mom has done is yell at me for having too much homework and not planning ahead so I can attend her "get together" (when my English teacher gave us our essay TODAY due tommorow)Now, don't say I'm spoiled. I know that my parents usually do a lot for my birthday, and I'm used to that and I appreciate it a lot. But this year is so weird...I don't get whats happening.I posted this before, and someone said money is tight, which it's definately not. Someone also said that she might be planning a surprise party, which is also definately not true because I know my mom well enough that she would never do that.Just to clarify, I don't want any sort of party, I just want to be able to discuss things like where we're going to eat, what she's gonna make for birthday dinner, without her yelling at me for something. Also...a few hours ago, I was working on my essay and I didn't have time to go downstairs to eat. A close family was over talking and eating dinner and my dad was like "Shouldn't we take dinner up to her?" and my mom was like "no that's ok" :(



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3 Responses to “Why does my mom not seem to care about my birthday?”

  1. erbilac says:

    Maybe your mother is upset and wants to send a message. When I turned 18, my mom refused to celebrate Christmas and birthdays to punish us. She never did say what for, but she let it be known that it was something we did. So, it really irritated her when we would go to other people’s houses when invited for those days.

  2. dstport says:

    Is there something that you have done that maybe she found out about but doesn’t want to confont you with?Are you usually greatful for the things that she does and do you tell her that you are?Just ask her what’s up..I think that is the best way to go about it

  3. odeprot says:

    Food seems to mean A LOT to you. are y ou overweight