Why does my mom not seem to care about my birthday?





Why does my mom not seem to care about my birthday?Usually in my birthday months, she's really nice to me, and she gets me little surprises leading up to it.But I'm turning 15 on sat. the 24th and she hasn't done anything. I'm not having a party this year, because I just don't have the time. Today we had a get together with a few people and on kids was turning 12 today. So yesterday, my mom was all like "do you think we should buy him a cake?" Then today I was like "Mom, when are we buying my cake?" and she was like "Oh...you need a cake? I thought we're going to a restaurant and they'll give you a cake there!"But that's not how we usually do it. Usually we go out to dinner the day before my b'day, get a little cake there, and then have a celebration in the home with a cake that we buy and then I open presents. But today, all my mom has done is yell at me for having too much homework and not planning ahead so I can attend her "get together" (when my English teacher gave us our essay TODAY due tommorow)Now, don't say I'm spoiled. I know that my parents usually do a lot for my birthday, and I'm used to that and I appreciate it a lot. But this year is so weird...I don't get whats happening.I posted this before, and someone said money is tight, which it's definately not. Someone also said that she might be planning a surprise party, which is also definately not true because I know my mom well enough that she would never do that.



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3 Responses to “Why does my mom not seem to care about my birthday?”

  1. sexuale says:

    Okay since I was wrong before about money and a surprise party (sorry I was thinking about what it might be if it was my mother) – Maybe she’s yelling at you and doesn’t want to talk about it because you keep talking about it. My little sister does that ALL the time. She’ll start talking about her birthday a month before and all she does is bug my mom about it which just stresses her out and makes her not want to do anything. Now in this case since you are going to be fifteen years old and your birthday is 2 days away and not a month away I doubt you’re just being annoying. But maybe your mother is stressed out – you said she is yelling at you every ten seconds so maybe it would be best if you just went with the flow and didn’t bring it up.I don’t think you’re spoiled for wanting to know what’s going on. Birthdays are supposed to be fun and I don’t think you are wrong at all for feeling a little hurt because your mother doesn’t seem to care.Again Happy Birthday! and good luck. I hope everything turns out alright.

  2. hogmane says:

    sucks 4 u

  3. conejos says:

    Why don’t you talk to your mom about your birthday plans? She could be in the dark about it as much as you. Maybe since you’re older, she figures you would come to her with any party ideas.